Where do you save?
How much is it worth to you, to save a little extra time working now to be able to play later? Or more importantly, how many times do you put off doing something now, figuring that the value of immediate time indulged will outweigh the subsequent time you'll spend fulfilling your responsibilities later? My projects don't finish themselves. Your house isn't self-cleaning. One of the most valuable piece of advice that I got from my parents was, "Discipline isn't so much about obeying rules as it's doing what you don't want to do, because it has to get done". I'm still tweaking this one out.
Dan Gilbert talks about the human mind's inability to tally up value or calculate for the future. We'd like to imagine that thinking ahead is a safe bet, and that we do it accurately. But we (as humans) fail all the time. He talks about purchase behavior as an example. He cites that we compare options to past experiences rather than logic, when evaluating value. We turn down enlightening experiences or opt for more self-defeating behavior by following the advice of the skeletons in our closet. He goes on to point out that by comparing things to the possible instead of the past, we're able to make better use of our decision making. If you have 30 minutes, check out his TED Talk (at the top of the page), and start reevaluating how you budget your life, and if you're truly "seizing the day" as much as you could.
An interesting counterpoint I'm currently thinking about, is how the actual value of value is always in flux. The kids of the 50's and 60's, rushing outside after school every day with baseball gloves in hand might have a hard time "having fun" with today's kids who rush inside after school every day to sit down again, plug into a screen, and escape reality in a screen. Both groups have "fun" so do both pastimes have equal value? Depends on who's keeping score. In our classes, we're talking about how TIME= THE NEW CURRENCY, and how our constant rushing between appointments and deadlines is redefining value and culture in America.
I take comfort in how trends move in cycles, and perhaps people will soon remember how to stop and smell the proverbial flowers.
Here's some good life advice on living in the present, written by Jamie Cullum and sung by yours truly.
Here's some good life advice on living in the present, written by Jamie Cullum and sung by yours truly.

